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Perinatal loss and bereavement

The death of a baby during pregnancy, birth or the newborn period is a profound loss. There is no right or wrong way to grieve and everyone's experience is different. 

Even if you are not taking your baby home, your body will still go through many of the physical changes that occur after birth. You may experience bleeding, discomfort, changes to your breasts and milk production, hormonal changes and emotional ups and downs as your body recovers. 

Understanding your baby

Communicating with your baby

Babies communicate from birth through their movements, sounds, facial expressions and crying. Learning to recognise your baby's cues can help you respond to their needs with confidence. 

When you respond with warmth and care, you help your baby feel safe, build a strong relationship and support healthy brain development. You do not need to be perfect. Being present, responsive and loving is what matters most. 

If your baby needs extra care

Sometimes, babies need extra support after birth. This may be planned or unexpected. 

If your baby needs extra care, it can feel overwhelming but support is available for both you and your baby. 

Many babies who need extra care improve over time. As your baby grows stronger, their care and support needs may change.

The first few moments after birth

Skin to skin contact

After birth, your baby may be placed on your bare chest. This is called skin-to-skin contact. It helps your baby adjust, supports bonding and can help feeding get started. 

If you and your baby are well, skin-to-skin contact is recommended for at least the first hour after birth, no matter how you plan to feed your baby. 

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